Thursday, March 27, 2008
Packing Bags
The other day after my check up, Frank and I were in the back yard enjoying the warm weather and talking about everything we needed to get done before the baby gets here. I told Frank that I needed to go ahead and start putting together my overnight bag in case I do go into labor early. And Frank said, "That's a good idea. Will you pack my bag to so I don't have to." And I looked at him with a confused look on my face and asked him why I needed to pack a bag for him. As sweet as anything, he says, "Well I am going to need clothes and stuff to stay at the hospital too." And I said, Frank, we aren't exactly checking into the Hilton. I'll pack your toothbrush and some basics, but if you need to take a shower or something, you can just run home. And he says, "Oh. Well I didn't think about that. I thought I would need to stay with you the whole time." So if anyone wants to visit us after the birth, you can fund us at the Hilton Resort :-)
It was both the cutest and funniest thing I've heard. He is so excited about this baby. But he is starting to get very nervous....not about the baby....about the delivery. He keeps checking to make sure that my Mom is also going in with us. When we talk about the delivery he says, "I'm getting a chair and setting by your head and I'm not moving or looking at anything. And when the baby gets here, I would prefer if they went ahead and cleaned him and wrapped him in a blanket before they give him to me." He's so funny about everything! It cracks me up.
Laughter pretty much gets us through everything. Our wedding....our arguments....and most likely the delivery. I feel like I should video tape Frank during the delivery and sell copies of it!
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
My Little Husky
I have not started 'nesting' yet, but boy has Frank. As soon as I told him what the doctor said (he went to the ultrasound, but skipped out on the exam) he immediately started spouting off our list of things that we needed to go ahead and get done. So I think Frank is going to be a little mother hen. I told Frank that my body is technically at the 36 week point, so I couldn't over exert myself. :-) Hey, I need to go ahead and milk it while I can!
So I am now in overdrive mode b/c I really think this baby is coming mid-April and my doctor seems to agree! I told him today that I am not woman enough to pop out a big baby, and he assured me that he had plenty of drugs to help me through the process. I'm starting to get nervous now...
Monday, March 17, 2008
Nursery
And Sunday, I was actually nice...ALL DAY LONG!!!! The claws didn't come out once! I feel the need to brag on myself since Frank has been giving me such a hard time about my 'mood swings.' And the house is starting to come together...after 2 years! Our new living room furniture is supposed to be in at the end of the month, and we have been getting window treatments made, so hopefully those will be hung by the end of the month too. And Frank is working on a flower bed in the front of the house...I hope he knows how to keep them alive! I do not have a green thumb! By the time everything is done, we'll feel like we are living in a brand new house! Which is good b/c we'll be so broke by the end of it that we won't be able to go out anymore. So we'll be at home eating sandwiches and potato chips if anyone wants to come over and join us :-)
Monday, March 10, 2008
Wildcat
I had my 32 week checkup last week. I can't believe my due date is so near! I am beginning to feel pretty miserable and feel very uncomfortable. My doctor's eyes got huge when she measured me this week and immediately started asking a ton of questions. Apparently, my 'growth' has not slowed down at all and according to the doctor, "I've got a big one growing in me." But she said not to worry too much b/c it's all baby since I've only gained 10 lbs so far. (No I am not bragging...we all know I wasn't tiny to begin with.) So she is scheduling another ultrasound to make sure nothing is wrong, and to see if they might have miscalculated my due date. My Mom went with me to this appt. and I was so glad. The doctor asked her a lot of questions b/c child birth is hereditary, which I was not aware of.
I'm moving a lot slower now! I have to constantly take breaks if I'm cleaning the house because my legs start to swell. And I get the feeling that something is about to 'fall out'. That's the only way I know to explain it. (Sorry for the details.) But my sweet, sweet Momma and Madison came and stayed Friday night with me. Maddy had a field trip in town, so after it got over, she and momma just went to my house Friday while I was still working. When I got home, my entire house had been cleaned and ALL the clothes had been washed and folded!!!! Madison even scrubbed my bathrooms! And she insisted on buying the cleaning supplies with her own money! My bathrooms are so clean. Frank had the biggest smile on his face when he saw how clean our house was. He asked momma if she wanted to come and stay every weekend with us! She has no idea how much it helped me out. My house has been driving me crazy, but physically, it has been impossible to get everything clean.
So now, I am slowly getting the nursery complete and ready for my little man. And I am taking it easy from here on out.
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
I've Made Progress and Mood Update
Now for my "Mood Update." It is still very unpredictable. My house is a complete mess and every time I go home, it makes me ill. And apparently there is some rule that only females can operate a vacuum cleaner. And while we are on that subject, did you know that grocery stores only allow women to do the shopping. I don't know who came up with those rules, but if I knew who it was, I'd do everyone a favor and shoot them! So you can see that the horns are still out and Frank can not win for losing right now. I am going to call someone to clean my house for me as soon as I put it back together. Which still seems silly to me...You have to get your house clean so that someone can come and clean it. Go figure. Momma is coming up this weekend, so I should have everything together by then. And once my house is put back together....I don't plan on doing ANYTHING until the baby gets here. I mean, I am not lifting a finger! No cleaning...no cooking...no nothing. We'll either starve or do take out.
And the baby is getting HUGE, which means I am getting HUGE!!! So that doesn't help either. I have to do a "roll" just to get out of bed in the mornings b/c I can't sit up! I feel like Porky the Pig! I just don't see how my stomach can stretch any further out before it explodes. So I have definitely hit the miserable stage. And I look at my other pregnant friends and they are just so darn cute right now. And I feel like a blimp. And it doesn't help out when Frank points out that I have a new stretch mark!!!!! He finds this very funny and he keeps asking me, "Will they go away after the baby gets here." I want to reply, "Will you go away after the baby gets here." But I don't. So would someone please give him a call and tell what What TO say, and more importantly, What NOT TO say to a very pregnant woman!!!
And just for the record, yes I love Him and no he is not THAT bad, but this is my outlet to vent so that I don't strangle him, Palmetto Alarm, and annoying people that keep calling me on the phone. (Which by the way...the alarm people are SUPPOSED to show up today and god help them if they don't.)